I had french kiss with girls many times. for two cases i fingered their pussy and then lick that finger.
Can hiv transmit to me?
Thank you for reaching out to AIDS Vancouver. I hope the following information will help you understand the risk level of the activity you described.
I'll begin by cutting to the chase: Fingering someone (whether or not you lick your fingers afterward) is NEGLIGIBLE RISK. This means that there is a theoretical risk of transmission due to this activity, but that there has never been a confirmed case of anyone acquiring HIV this way.
Here's why:
To acquire HIV there must be an activity + an exchange of bodily fluids capable of transmitting HIV (blood, semen, pre-semen, rectal secretions, vaginal fluids or breast milk) + a way for HIV in those bodily fluids to get direct access to your bloodstream.
When you are fingering someone, there is no obvious way for HIV to get direct access to your bloodstream if your finger is free from any major cuts deep enough to require stitches or major infections.
Licking your finger doesn't increase the risk of acquiring HIV for a number of reasons. First, HIV quickly stops being transmissible after exposure to an open air environment. And once you remove you finger, the vaginal fluids on it are exposed to the air. Second,your saliva contains an enzyme that provides some added protection against HIV.
I hope this has answered your question and provided you with a bit more understanding about how HIV is transmitted. If you have further questions about the risk level of other activities, you are welcome to refer to our Risk Assessment Chart.
Yours in health,
Matt, Helpline Volunteer
AIDS Vancouver Online Helpline
helpline.aidsvancouver.org